Post 147 Sex, Sexuality, Sensuality and Love.

I’ve recently been involved in discussions around this topic and while sex and sensuality can be expressions of love, sex and sensuality are by themselves, not love or loving. There are lots of different factors involved so this, so it’s not a simple subject or issue. To begin to understand sex and love we have to consider unloving Denial and Spirit polarity essence people and Love and Will Polarity essence people that are in denial and who also act unloving. All of these people in denial are looking for something or someone to make them “feel good” in any number of ways and sex is a “quick fix” for them, either giving sex and making another person happy, or getting sex and having a physical release.

Unloving essence just wants a buzz, a quick fix, or a feel good sensation in their body that tells their mind that they are happy as they got what they wanted that made them happy. There is little or no love here and when the bloom has left the relationship and they can no longer get their sexual “fix” and are bored, then they are off like a bee to a new flower.

Because sex is an expression of Love it is also affected by imprinting in the mind, Will, Body and Heart as to what is love and what is not. Hummm? I just felt how fucked up creation is because of the denials that have been involved. Everyone one is either fucking anyone they can or they are not having sex and it all revolves around the imprinting and denials that each person has.

Sex is used as a tool, it sells. Sex is also a "power" tool used to get or have power over another. Sex is an aphrodisiac that replaces love, and the body is used to sell or get sex. Society says it’s a “natural” urge and high, trouble is that sex is being used to get a quick fix high instead of being an expression of love. “Feel good” is not love, but love, feels good.

There is also massive confusion over form and just because a person looks sexy and sensual, doesn’t mean that they are loving. There is so much pressure by society to look good, young, sexy, and to present an “image” of having it, but the “it” is only an image or a reflection of love and is not love or the expression of love. All sexual activity is done with some form of denial, guilt or shame and depending on the denials present in either person, the act will be unloving in proportion to the denials present.

JR

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